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Event Description

If you are a heterosexual couple and you have a desire to develop your lovemaking skills to increase you and your partner’s pleasure and you have a webcam, then wherever you are in the world, this is the online class for you.

March 23rd & March 26th

For many couples this past year, it has been a tough challenge to maintain intimate sexual relationships. Restrictions and lockdowns have meant freedom, exploration has been hampered, and finding time and privacy has been elusive for those couples with families. Putting aside an evening to both learn and enjoy giving one another sensual pleasure is more relevant now than probably ever before. Divided into two three hour evenings, Massage My Woman and Massage My Man, these two classes are based on Colin's famous live couples group classes. An intimate relationship can transform by teaching one another to give a full body sensual massage with intended erotic arousal.

Following an introduction chat, Colin teaches the sensual massage on a step-by-step basis, incorporating both therapeutic and sensual techniques designed to arouse your partner gradually. To make it easier to learn, Colin has a male and female couple who demonstrates the massage as you follow at home. After a short interval, the second massage practice is a repeat of the first, but so that you can enjoy the intimate connection to the full Colin guides quietly with less verbal instruction.

In the Foundation Classes, the massage taught is based on a traditional therapeutic massage. The stimulating and arousing techniques focus on non-erogenous, erogenous, and clitoral stimulation for the female and genital massage to the male. Orgasm is not necessarily the aim but is usually the outcome.

If you enjoy the Foundation class, you can return for a further two 2 hour classes focusing on specific erotic techniques. These include classes for the male to learn to give expert vaginal and G spot massage, body to body, and ejaculation techniques and the female, to learn how to use her whole body, give a specialist prostate massage, and bring in dominant play.

These online couples classes are divided into two three hour classes.

The Massage My Woman, men giving to their female partner and the Massage My Man, women giving to their male partner. They take place at a separate days, and a couple can choose to book one or both. Each class contains two massage practice sessions.


MARCH 23RD - 7.30PM TO 10.30PM

Men learning to give a full body sensual massage to their female partner


In this class the men will:-

Extend the length of your lovemaking by learning the art of giving your woman a superb full body sensual massage.
Explore her whole body causing her mind to let go and fall into her primal sexual state
Become skilled in giving great erotic foreplay, to include various techniques and positions of clitoral stimulation.
Make her feel desired in ways that will put you in the top 10% of men
Hear her say these words “Don’t stop that’s amazing’

Day 2


MARCH 26TH  7.30PM TO 10.30PM

Women learning to give a full body sensual massage to their male partner

In this class the women will:-

Extend the length of your lovemaking by hours by learning the art of giving your man a superb full body sensual massage.
Become skilled in giving great erotic foreplay, body to body massage and edging to orgasm
Discover how your pleasure in giving turns him on even more.
Discover the secret places on his body where your touch will send him to places he probably has never been before.
Learn arousal techniques that put you far ahead of the competition.
Hear him say these words “Don’t stop that’s simply the best.”

Single class - £75

Attend both classes bundle ticket - £125 per couple

Maximum attendance is 16 couples attendance

Also included in the ticket price is:-

A months membership to Colins sensual massage tutorial video platform www.intimatetutorials.com (usually £30)


A 20% discount on a massage treatment or live practice sessions given to either of the couple in a couples appointment - Quote your couple class when booking





In both classes Colin is assisted with live models. In the male to female class Colin demonstrates on a female model  but has a male assistant at hand to put into practice the body to body elements. In the female to male class Colin instructs a female assistant to give to a full body sensual massage to a male receiver to include full erotic arousal. As well as learning you will also enjoy the spectacle.

7.30 pm, 20 minutes – Introduction, the secrets of sensual and psychological arousal.

7.50pm, 90 minutes – Step by step tuition by Colin teaching a full body sensual massage routine with sensual elements intended to arouse. As Colin teaches the volunteer couple will demonstrate with couples on line to follow.

9.15 pm, 10 minutes – Time to get feedback from your partner.

9.25 pm, 60 minutes – Practice session. This part is for the couple to practice without distraction giving their partners the whole massage by following the volunteer demonstration with Colin giving verbal guidance.

10.25 pm, Feedback & questions

10.30 pm, Finish


Sex & Relationship Engineer & Master Sensual Masseur - As featured in Ch 5 TV The Sex Business, Cosmopolitan, Independent, BBC Worlsservice and many more National media outlets

I am a somatic sexuality educator, practitioner and general problem solver in the world of sexuality and relationships. Fundamentally, I aim to help people transform their relationships and sex lives to become what they want and deserve. Working full time in this field since 2005 I have discovered and used various different approaches that are not generally covered by conventional methods to help people in this intimate part of their life. By combining my knowledge of sexual and relationship psychology with my experience as a sensual masseur I am able to work with both the emotional and sexual. I work with single women, men and couples of any age and orientation.  To list a few of the more frequent aspects I help people with they include; relationship conflict, finding the right partner, reawakening one’s sex life, sexual frustration, lack of sexual experience, sexual performance challenges (inability to orgasm, erectile issues), fear of sex, experiencing sexual complacency in a relationship, and particularly for women exploding libido or low libido.

I created Intimacy Matters in 2012 and since then I have helped over 6000 people in many aspects of their relationships and sexuality. My approach could be described as humanistic in that I look at the biological, psychological, social, anthropological and sexual influences behind our sensual desires, curiosities and fears. I work with men women and couples of all sexual orientations. My treatments include sensual massage, psychosensual treatments, relationship counselling and  I run individual trainings and group workshops to enhance sexual confidence and foreplay knowledge and skills.  I give public and on line Zoom talks and run my own social events. I am based in London Bridge . Central London, UK.



To ensure security and confidentiality, only couples participating are allowed to view the webcams, and at all times, participants' webcams must remain switched on. Mobile phones and other devices other than the device you are viewing on must be switched off. Screens will be monitored to ensure this.




Q. Who can attend this workshop?

This is a couples only event and can be attended by anyone over the age of 18,


Q. What designates a couple?

As long as you are both happy to be there you can be a married or partnered couple, intimate friend or a remunerated helper.

Q. Can we be more than one couple in a room

Yes is you have friends who want to join you and both couples ca be viewed at the same time but full ticket price is due on both couples


Q. What IT do we need to attend the workshop?

You will need a laptop, PC or Tablet and to have Zoom ( https://zoom.us ) installed on your device. Make sure your webcam and sound are open.

Q. What else do we need?

Ideally, a massage table with towels, if you do not have that then a table big enough to take a person with cushions or cushions or futon on the floor or a bed that you can walk around ( a single bed is ideal but a double is possible)


A glass ( or bottle of) wine
Candles and mood lighting
Ear pods for the giver or ear plugs for the receiver
A couple of large bath towels
A warm room
Warmed grapeseed oil (Sainsbury’s) ideally warmed in hot water
Any sex toys you like to use
Music to play
Candles or dim light
If you have one, a pastry brush
Anything in your home that you feel would be sensual if used on the body
Does my age or body type matter?

No, the point of this workshop is to give confidence to everyone no matter what age, culture or body type.

Who are the volunteers?

This is a personally vetted couple who have attended several of Colin’s workshops and who are happy to act as demonstrators of the massage as Colin teaches. They are of good physique and are comfortable to discuss sex and arousal openly.

What do I wear?

Wear whatever you feel comfortable, but you need to be able to move freely and using your upper body to massage. Also bear in mind that you will be using oils. Usually, the receiver is naked, and the giver can be naked or partially clothed.

Do I need to be “hands-on” during this workshop?

Yes, for the comfort of the whole group, you must take part in giving the massage and not remain just as observers. However, you can take everything at your own pace.

Do people have sex at this event?

Since this is a couples workshop, and you are at your location how sexual you want to make your experience is entirely up to you. However, Colin recommends that during the teaching to stick to the sensual massage instructions then in the final 45-minute practice session, you can enjoy the experience to whatever level you wish.


Is there any supporting material given

Yes, following the class you will be given 1 Months access to the Sensual Massage Tutorials on www.intimatetutorial.com

You will be given a written bullet point list of the massage to follow

You can receive a 10% discount on any live class or workshop Colin arranges.

Ask any questions by emailing Colin at colin@intimacymatters.co.uk or call or text him on 0044 (0) 7966522696

Ticket can be purchased via the Intimacy Matters Web site & Design My Night at this link


It is important that either before purchasing your ticket or after you MUST Complete this REGISTRATION FORM

You will receive a confirmation of your place from Colin

48 hours before the Class you will receive the agenda for the workshop and the Zoom link

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